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\nWhen we\u2019re children we often know intuitively something that as adults we forget - that there are many different parts of each of us inside, and that sometimes we really need to give space to the part of us that will be kind, and nurturing, and gentle.
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\nAs adults it is possible for us to relearn this, and we can practice relating to the whole of our inner world with an attentiveness and spaciousness that\u2019s resourcing to us. This in turn frees us up to bring our personal complexity to meet the complexity of the world. \u2018Where to begin\u2019 is the starting point for this week\u2019s conversation.
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\nHosted, as always, by Lizzie Winn and Justin Wise of Thirdspace.
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\nHere's our source for this week:
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\nLooking After Our Selves
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\nIt\u2019s well observed that between the ages of around one and twelve, many children manifest a deep attachment to a stuffed soft object, normally shaped into a bear, a rabbit or \u2013 less often \u2013 a penguin. The depth of the relationship can be extraordinary\u2026 What\u2019s truly remarkable is that the animal looks after its owner, addressing him in a tone of unusual maturity and kindness. It might, in a crisis, urge the child not to worry and to look forward to better times in the future. But naturally, the animal\u2019s character is entirely made up. The animal is simply something invented, or brought to life by one part of the child, in order to look after the other\u2026 Though it sounds a little odd, speaking to ourselves is common practice throughout our lives. Often, when we do so, the tone is harsh and punitive. But\u2026 mental well-being depends on having to hand a repertoire of more gentle, forgiving and hopeful inner voices\u2026 Being properly mature demands a gracious accommodation with what can seem childlike, embarrassing or humiliatingly vulnerable. We should honour stuffed animals for what they really are: tools to help us on our first steps in the vital business of knowing how to look after ourselves.
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\nFrom The School Of Life
\nwww.theschooloflife.com/article/stuffed-animals
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\nPhoto by Richard Stovall on Unsplash\n