220: Your Implicit is My Possibility

Published: Dec. 29, 2021, 12:34 a.m.

We each carry a whole implicit world with us, a way of being that profoundly shapes what's possible for others in relationship with us. But because it's implicit, the 'background', it can be hard to see how much more there is to our relationships than the actions we take and the words we say. As Lizzie writes in this week's source, "What\u2019s implied in your words, your actions, your feelings towards me. That\u2019s what\u2019s most powerful. What\u2019s implied. That\u2019s what shapes me most profoundly. "\n\n
\nThis week's Turning Towards Life is a conversation about\xa0 profound ways we affect one another before we even speak. It's hosted as always by Lizzie Winn and Justin Wise of Thirdspace.

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\nHere's our source for this week:
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\nYour implicit = my possibility.
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\n\n\nYou see me as whole, you trust me.\nYou treat me as capable, you encourage me.\nYou feel me to be complete, you allow me.\nEach day you welcome me as new, you accept me.\n
\n\nNo fixing. No changing. Something way deeper. Something far wider.\n
\n\nWhat\u2019s implied in your words, your actions, your feelings towards me.\xa0\nThat\u2019s what\u2019s most powerful. What\u2019s implied. That\u2019s what shapes me most profoundly.\xa0\n
\n\nThat you trust me makes me trustworthy.\xa0\nThat you love me makes me loveable.\nThat you honour me makes me honourable.\nThat you have faith in me makes me faithful.\xa0\n
\n\nWe are connected. Not separate.\n
\n\nMy depth, and all that comes comes from my background shapes what\u2019s possible for you.\xa0\n
\n\nYour depth, and all that comes from your background shapes what\u2019s possible for me.\n
\n\nLizzie Winn\n\n
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