169: Coming Apart and Together at the Same Time

Published: Dec. 27, 2020, 12:27 p.m.

\nIn between our certainty that we\u2019re too small, or too inadequate to meet life, and our fantasies (perhaps even expectations) of perfection, mastery of life, and personal power, there is a middle place. And the middle, if we\u2019ll meet ourselves and one another there, is far from a place of mediocrity. Instead it\u2019s a way in which we can be real with one another, truthful about our messiness and our gloriousness, and the messiness and gloriousness of life. Will you meet us there? This episode of Turning Towards Life is a conversation which invites a new understanding of \u2018middling\u2019 \u2013 less as an adjective, more as a verb, something we can actively do to find a dignified \u2018right size\u2019 in our lives; hosted as always by Lizzie Winn and Justin Wise of Thirdspace.
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\n\n\nThis is Turning Towards Life, a weekly live 30 minute conversation hosted by Thirdspace in which Justin Wise and Lizzie Winn dive deep into big questions of human living. Find us on FaceBook to watch live and join in the lively conversation on this episode. We\u2019re also on YouTube, and as a podcast on Apple, Google and Spotify. You can find videos of every episode, and more about the project on the Turning Towards Life website.
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\n\n\nOur source this week is brought to us by Justin, and written by Maya Stein:
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\n\n\n\nIt looks like the sky is coming apart and together at the same time\u2026
\nby Maya Stein https://bit.ly/3nJVKEu
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\n\n\nAnd the body is holding its losses like a fist. And a fleshy hope
\nis opening to an unprecedented vastness. And whatever we think
\nwe are leaving behind will keep insisting. And the things we desire
\nwill elude us. And our efforts will pose as failure. And we will not recognize
\nhow far we\u2019ve come. And we will solve one problem and create another.
\nAnd we will feel broken. And we will not be broken. And the silence
\nwill be deafening. And we will love destructively. And no one
\nwill appear to be listening. And there will be too many doors
\nto choose from. And we will keep saying, \u201cI don\u2019t know how to do this.\u201d
\nAnd we will be more capable than we ever imagined.
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\n\n\nPhoto by Roman Kraft on Unsplash\n