142: Making the Unwanted Wanted

Published: June 21, 2020, 10:21 a.m.

\nLife keeps on happening, and most of it happens whether we want it that way or not. Our \u2018not wanting\u2019 can easily lead us into pushing away life as it happens, and into exiling the parts of ourselves and others that we find to be unwelcome. But another way might be possible for each of us, a path we can practice that has us turning towards what happens with welcome. And this could be a way in which we find ourselves opening over the course of a life, rather than narrowing. A conversation about curiosity and welcoming all of it, with Lizzie Winn and Justin Wise of Thirdspace.
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This is Turning Towards Life, a weekly live 30 minute conversation hosted by Thirdspace in which Justin Wise and Lizzie Winn dive deep into big questions of human living. Find us on FaceBook to watch live and join in the lively conversation on this episode. We\u2019re also on YouTube, and as a podcast on Apple, Google and Spotify. You can find videos of every episode, and more about the project on the Turning Towards Life website.
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\nOur source for this week is chosen for us by Justin.
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\nA Cedary Fragrance
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\nEven now,
\ndecades after,
\nI wash my face with cold water \u2013
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\nNot for discipline,
\nnor memory,
\nnor the icy, awakening slap,
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\nbut to practice
\nchoosing
\nto make the unwanted wanted.
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\nby Jane Hirshfield, from Given Sugar, Given Salt, 2001
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Photo by lucas mendes on Unsplash
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