\u201cComplex trauma shows up in so many different ways that are covert and overt. And, the more we can recognize it, the more we're able to approach it in a way that moves towards healing and not isolation.\u201d ~Gina Essex, MA, LPC-S
Our host Sarah is joined by Gina Essex, a psychotherapist, NARM Therapist and Senior Training Assistant, who began working with the NeuroAffective Relational Model\xae (NARM\xae) in 2013.
Gina has a passion for making this trauma healing work accessible to everyone, as she says: \u201cIt\u2019s so important for everyone to know that the effects of trauma can be healed over time.\u201d Over the past few years Gina has been focused on introducing NARM to first responders in her community.
Gina works with firefighters, paramedics, law enforcement, and military\u2014 populations that tend to present unique challenges for traditional therapists.
\u201cThese people run toward danger. They run toward life threat. They\u2019re trained to go against their normal human instinct: to get away from danger.\u201d Gina describes how she thinks of running toward danger as the flip side of what these first responders are dealing with internally. She suggests that in order to run toward danger, they have to run away from themselves.\xa0
In addition to the tolerance for high-risk experiences required in these professions, there\u2019s an element of fraternity that frames any evidence of vulnerability as a potential liability. The constant desensitization to high-risk experiences can prevent these deeply-caring professionals from accessing and expressing their real feelings.
\u201cThere are stigmas within these communities, \u2018Don\u2019t show your emotion. Don\u2019t cry. You'll look weak, or you'll be weak and people don't want to work with you, or you won't have our back, or you'll be shunned if you\u2019re weak.\u2019\u201d
As for her own journey, Gina says that NARM training has opened her up to areas where she had, in the past, focused too much attention on the doing. She\u2019s learning to trust the process more, including her clients\u2019 capacity to be their own healers.\xa0 \u201cIt\u2019s a very sacred space and not to be overlooked.\u201d
Hear how the work Gina does with the first responders address these stigmas head-on, and how she has witnessed the power of NARM in her private practice to transform people shackled to complex trauma into fully engaged participants of life.\xa0
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The NARM Training Institute provides tools for transforming complex trauma through: in-person and online trainings for mental health care professionals; in-person and online workshops on complex trauma and how it interplays with areas like addiction, parenting, and cultural trauma; an online self-paced learning program, the NARM Inner Circle; and other trauma-informed learning resources.\xa0\xa0
For the full show notes including references, podcast episodes mentioned, and a quick glossary of terms, visit us at http://www.narmtraining.com/transformingtrauma
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