169: Making Decisions w/ Kimberly Mathis

Published: April 9, 2024, 8 a.m.

Ever find yourself standing at life's crossroads, overwhelmed by the buffet of choices laid out before you? Joining us on this journey through the labyrinth of decision-making is the insightful Kimberly Mathis, who pivoted her career from therapy to coaching.\xa0

Now, she's here to guide us with her lantern of wisdom. We kick things off by dissecting decision fatigue, those sneakily impactful choices that shape our daily routines, and the significance of aligning our actions with our deepest values\u2014even when life throws us curveballs.

If you've ever felt the weight of societal expectations crushing your health and fitness goals, you'll find solace and strategy in our candid discussion. We tackle the cultural pressures women face, urging us to play multifaceted roles while maintaining an often unrealistic health regimen.\xa0

Together, we uncover how to redefine success on a personal level and discuss why neurodivergent individuals might face distinct challenges in crafting new habits. And remember, when your lofty aims and reality clash, it's compassion, not criticism, that's your true north star.

As we wrap up, we contemplate the delicate dance between conviction and flexibility in our choices. The beauty of reevaluating decisions with fresh eyes is not a sign of indecision, but a hallmark of wisdom.\xa0

In a special segment, we contrast therapy and coaching, offering insights for those pondering which path might best escort them on their personal development journey\u2014because when it comes to shaping the life you want, the compass of change is in your hands.

Chapter Summaries The Power of Decision-Making (0:00:21)\xa0

The former therapist turned coach Kimberly Mathis discusses decision-making, decision fatigue, and the impact of daily commitments on our lives.

Challenges and Strategies for Health Goals (0:13:15)\xa0

Women's health goals, societal expectations, diminishing returns in exercise, and establishing realistic routines for neurodivergent individuals.

Navigating Self-Doubt and Decision-Making (0:28:12)\xa0

Nature's pitfalls of overthinking, traditional pro-con lists, addressing self-doubt, and making decisions based on values and excitement.

Importance of Flexibility in Decision-Making (0:35:43)\xa0

Nature's fluid decision-making and adaptability, re-evaluating choices, evolving habits, and identity tied to habits.

Coaching vs Therapy (0:46:59)

Therapy vs. coaching, benefits of both, and finding the right coach in an unregulated industry.

About Kimberly Mathis

Kimberly is a former licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, who left the therapy world for coaching in 2020. She helps people change things that feel unchangeable. Clients working with her learn how to make decisions for themselves, create plans for actions, and follow through.\xa0

She's a queer mom of two teenagers, has a spicy ADHD brain, and has often been described as a rebellious firecracker. You can find her on Instagram @thekimberlymathis, and can binge her podcast, "Decisions Change Everything" on Spotify or Apple.

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