Episode 180 - INFLUENCE: Connection or Contagion?

Published: Sept. 16, 2021, 4 a.m.

We have always been subject to the influence of others\u2014it\u2019s how we learn language, become socialized, cooperate and collaborate. It\u2019s also how we exclude, denigrate, and assault others. Today, we are subject to unprecedented social influences. Multiplicities of media shape our ideas, identities, beliefs, and values--and foster connections and communities around the world. If tulip mania took hold in 17th century Holland\u2014perhaps the original speculative bubble--today we have non-fungible tokens and cryptocurrencies. \u201cHeretics\u201d are now exiled via \u201ccancel culture.\u201d Cultural contagions and psychic epidemics are not new\u2014they just come dressed in the flashy new garb of social media and telecommunication. Amid so many influences, it is newly necessary to engage in the discernment and differentiation crucial to individuation, the fulfillment of our innate potential. Consciousness cannot be held hostage to intellectual simplifications or emotional reactivity. Each of us can uphold social norms that rest on foundations of fact, reflection, and spaciousness.\xa0\xa0\xa0

Here\u2019s the dream we analyze:

\u201cIt\u2019s nighttime, and I\u2019ve traveled to France with my immediate family and also a woman I\u2019ve known who has a lot of money involved in the fashion industry. We arrive at where we are supposed to stay for the night-- a very run-down part of town. We come to a pink house with bars on the windows. My company, used to five-star accommodations, hesitatingly agrees to stay at these dodgy houses. The next scene: I\u2019m in a twin bed, with my brother asleep in the twin bed next to mine. I know my parents are asleep in the room next to ours. All the lights are out, and it\u2019s dark. A darkly figured shadow man enters the room, an intruder. I\u2019m at once frightened and also intrigued. I gasp, and he notices I\u2019m there and turns to leave. As he leaves, I ask, \u201cwho are you?\u201d He turns for a moment from the door, and I feel his gaze. I\u2019m overcome by a sense of longing for him and he leaves. My father enters the room moments later and tells me he saw him, too.\u201d

\xa0REFERENCES:

C.G. Jung, Collected Works, Volume 10: Wotan, pp. 179-193.

From Paralysis to Fatigue: A History of Psychosomatic Illness in the Modern Era, by Edward Shorter. https://www.amazon.com/dp/0029286670/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_SCTDD834KQH02VXCS5DY

\xa0RESOURCES:

Learn to Analyze your own Dreams:\xa0 https://thisjungianlife.com/enroll/