Making Peace with the Past

Published: July 15, 2021, 10 a.m.

Hey, there! I kick this episode off with a tea talk (hibiscus tea in a Museo Del Prado mug) and a life update regarding vacation, college applications, and my occupations. I introduce the topic of making peace with the past through context and the structure for the episode. Then, I talk about how no decision is perfect by sharing stories, talking about destiny, explaining how regret won\u2019t solve anything, and realising that the universe has a way of teaching us lessons. Next, I explore the art of acceptance: how time heals all wounds, how talking can help, and making the most of what you have. Afterward, I think about letting go: grudges that get in the way, paralysis, and how this is momentary. I wrap up with conclusions and my faves in backpacks and music.\n\n\n\nTO GET DIRECTLY TO THE CONTENT, SKIP TO 11:15 \n\n\nFOLLOW THE PODCAST\u2019S INSTAGRAM: https://instagram.com/theasteapodcast?igshid=r04b2760fkdl\nCONTACT ME THROUGH: theasteapodcast@gmail.com (for business inquiries, sponsorships or to tell me what you think about this podcast!)\nSEND ME A VOICE MESSAGE: https://anchor.fm/th351a-beaury/message\nCHECK OUT THE DESIGNERS OF MY COVER ART: https://instagram.com/sofiarrublacreative?igshid=1xtsd1w69zkkl\nhttps://instagram.com/cuerpobaldio?igshid=1jq5cb59nm2z\nListen to my other podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3RhYyCBLVwBuNimne4zVCO?si=AG_LzDsuQdqBYedSmFOkfQ\nFollow my TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJwKjr2L/ \nSTART YOUR PODCAST NOW BY HEADING TO anchor.fm\n\n\nCHECK OUT THE THINGS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE (IN ORDER OF APPEARANCE):\nListen to my episode on \u201chot girl summer\u201d (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/episode/3ZEqzUVFlMkYDbzr0Yb4BB?si=wams8-i2Qi6ftf9rNO6iMw&dl_branch=1\nListen to my episode on nostalgia (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/episode/6kyJ2dGlx8bZXNq3n9biKf?si=58mwvceMSxSlniC_X4JNOQ&dl_branch=1\nListen to my interview with Juana: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3eXgUEeysrAV1fHXCSdN01?si=mUWvREhMTKOIbsozBvCjkw&dl_branch=1\nXtrem backpacks: https://xtrem.cl\nListen to \u201cDon\u2019t look back in anger\u201d by Oasis (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/track/0UvCh63URrLFcPkKt99hHd?si=H28bWKMSTNGASVz2Ke1Vkg&dl_branch=1\n\n\nHERE ARE SOME QUOTES I LIKED FROM THIS WEEK\u2019S EPISODE:\n14:10 = \u201cI want to enjoy my life the way it is actually happening, not the way I would have wanted it to happen\u201d\n14:52 = \u201cNo decision is perfect\u201d\n19:50 = \u201cEverything happens for a reason\u201d\n20:45 = \u201cWe cling to a blueprint of our lives\u201d\n24:25 = \u201cIt may not be \u201cperfect\u201d, but it\u2019s perfect for your story\u201d\n25:30 = \u201cTime heals all wounds\u201d\n26:45 = \u201cUnderstand the role something played in your life and learn o be grateful for that\u201d \n36:25 = \u201cYou\u2019re putting more pressure on this than it deserves\u201d\n38:00 = \u201cThe universe will not go back in time and change the past just because you\u2019re unhappy with an outcome\u201d\n40:45 = \u201cYou need to make space for the new\u201d\n\n\nThanks for tuning in, have a beautiful week!