Authority

Published: Nov. 5, 2020, 10:45 a.m.

Hey there! This week I begin with the regularly scheduled tea talk (lemon cube in an astronaut mug) and life update about falling off routines, career ideas, and social events. I start talking about authority by saying that I want to understand these interactions; I\u2019ll be studying parents, teachers, and adults; investigating boundaries; questioning how accepting I am; and asking how we can have healthy relationships with those who have \u201cpower\u201d over us. To analyse parents, I take a look at cases of asking parents for permission, boundaries and injustice. Thinking about teachers, I question workloads, personal relationships, and interactions outside of school. I dive into engaging with random adults and talk about my friends\u2019 parents, conflicts between adults and kids, and exchanging with strangers. To wrap up, I answer my initial question by saying that respect (both to yourself, and those around you) should be your moral compass, that we\u2019re all equally human, how we should express our concerns, and wondering if I\u2019m just a big people pleaser. Before signing off, I read a lovely review from Sara.\n\n\nTO GET DIRECTLY TO THE CONTENT, SKIP TO 10:37\n\n\nFOLLOW THE PODCAST\u2019S INSTAGRAM: https://instagram.com/theasteapodcast?igshid=r04b2760fkdl\nCONTACT ME THROUGH: theasteapodcast@gmail.com (for business inquiries, sponsorships or to tell me what you think about this podcast!)\nSEND ME A VOICE MESSAGE: https://anchor.fm/th351a-beaury/message\nCHECK OUT THE DESIGNERS OF MY COVER ART: https://instagram.com/sofiarrublacreative?igshid=1xtsd1w69zkkl\nhttps://instagram.com/cuerpobaldio?igshid=1jq5cb59nm2z\nSTART YOUR PODCAST NOW BY HEADING TO anchor.fm\n\n\nCHECK OUT THE THINGS I MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE (IN ORDER OF APPEARANCE):\nRestaurant: B\xfaho Parrilla Entre Pinos\nListen to my episode on Solving Problems Through Good Communication (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/episode/6shvRpGzrhr0Y0ZXSG0jZi?si=Nswf9VGfTbOPb0si4VlIdQ\nIf you enjoyed this episode, you may be interested in my episode on Validation (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/episode/53iy3FZiBtQD14avRiD9R9?si=Ot-8gGD2QwSp75lC6clPNA\nListen to the Philosophize This! podcast (on Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/2Shpxw7dPoxRJCdfFXTWLE?si=NCTkAkVnT86qX98HQSXiKg\nCheck out Claudia Sulewski\u2019s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ClaudiaSulewski\nCheck out the store I got my headband from: https://instagram.com/macladama?igshid=154dd8n72grpo\n\n\nHERE ARE SONE QUOTES I LIKED FROM THIS WEEK\u2019S EPISODE:\n12:52 = \u201cHow can we have healthy relationships with those who have power over us?\u201d\n14:15 = \u201cI had never been raised in a way to question what my parents told me\u201d\n15:12 = \u201cTo what point should we listen to and obey what our parents tell us?\u201d\n16:51 = \u201cWe can feel the need to place different limits, and when we\u2019re doing that with a figure of authority, it can feel much more challenging\u201d\n17:17 = \u201cHow valuable are my wishes and requests in this interpersonal relationship?\u201d\n27:25 = \u201cHow can you carry a relationship with ex-teachers in a respectful way?\u201d\n32:27 = \u201cKids need to learn to solve their own problems without their parents stepping in\u201d\n36:41 = \u201cWe tend to think that adults are the ones who have all the responsibility, but, as younger people, we have responsibilities that adults don\u2019t\u201d\n38:03 = \u201cWe are all human beings, and we are all worthy, even if someone is older than you or has more titles that you\u201d\n\n\nThanks for tuning in, have a beautiful week!