The discussion on knowing the flags in your relationship will take a look at healthy flags vs red flags in a relationship. As we all know, relationships can be tough but when you re in a relationship and certain flags present themselves, it is important to know what you re up against. Recognizing early on what unfavorable characteristics your mate possesses can prevent long-term heartache, frustration, and feeling unloved or on the other hand embracing the good qualities your partner has will allow you to experience happiness, love, and appreciation.