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In today\u2019s episode, Chris and Abbie are discussing Attachment Styles. They will talk about the 4 different types, how they are caused and how to grow from an insecure to a secure style. [Sept 2, 2024]
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03:49 - The Topic of the Day: Attachment Styles
05:01 - The Types
05:44 - Secure Attachment
07:32 - Anxious Preoccupied Attachment
09:27 - Primary and Secondary Influences
14:40 - Dismissive Avoidant Attachment
17:42 - Fearful Avoidant Attachment
20:01 - One at a Time
21:09 - Oxytocin Influence
26:30 - The Path Forward
29:51 - See It to Believe It
34:21 - Emotional Well-Being
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