Ep. 273 - The Doctor Is In Series - Secure or Insecure - What Is Your Attachment Style?

Published: Sept. 2, 2024, 4 a.m.

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In today\u2019s episode, Chris and Abbie are discussing Attachment Styles. They will talk about the 4 different types, how they are caused and how to grow from an insecure to a secure style. [Sept 2, 2024]

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00:00 - Intro

00:16 - Dr. Abbie Maro\xf1o Intro

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03:49 - The Topic of the Day: Attachment Styles

05:01 - The Types

05:44 - Secure Attachment

07:32 - Anxious Preoccupied Attachment

09:27 - Primary and Secondary Influences

14:40 - Dismissive Avoidant Attachment

17:42 - Fearful Avoidant Attachment

20:01 - One at a Time

21:09 - Oxytocin Influence

26:30 - The Path Forward

29:51 - See It to Believe It

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