Ep. 133 - Having Superhero moments with Jonathan Miller

Published: Sept. 14, 2020, 9 a.m.

In this episode, Chris Hadnagy, Shelby Dacko and Jonathan Miller discuss many ways to improve your skills as a communicator. Learn the importance of observing the information your own body gives you. Hear their experiences with being amygdala hijacked, and how you can have your own superhero moment.\xa0\xa0

00:07 \u2013 Introduction to Shelby Dacko, Human Risk Analyst for Social-Engineer.\xa0

00:44 \u2013 Introduction to Jonathan Miller and his experience resolving conflict without violence.\xa0\xa0

02:06 \u2013 How to focus on nonviolent communication in violent circumstances.\xa0\xa0

04:18 \u2013 How to engage in productive conversation by respecting other\u2019s opinions.\xa0\xa0

06:24 \u2013 Become a better communicator by paying attention to introspective sensations.\xa0

10:33 \u2013 How a 1984 GMC Vandura and a potato helped Jonathan become a communications expert.\xa0

14:48 \u2013 Why most people pay no attention to the way they communicate.\xa0

18:58 \u2013 Announcements:\xa0

Human Hacking: Win Friends, Influence People, and Leave Them Better Off for Having Met You\xa0

Virtual Advanced Practical Social Engineering - 17-20 November, 2020\xa0

The Human Hacking Conference - Orlando, FL March 11-13, 2021\xa0

HHC SE Pentest Track \u2013 Day 2 \u2013 Vishing (Curt)\xa0

Advanced Practical Social Engineering \u2013 Orlando 13-16 April, 2021\xa0

Masters Level Social Engineering \u2013 Orlando, Fl 10-14 May, 2021\xa0

Advanced Practical Social Engineering \u2013 Bristol, UK 15-18 June, 2021\xa0

Social-Engineer.com\xa0

23:35 \u2013 How to become self-aware of the way you communicate.\xa0\xa0

25:08 \u2013 How to Deal with Defensiveness and Defensive People in Conversations\xa0

26:09 \u2013 How an amygdala hijack can trigger a defensive response and how you can work to fight it.\xa0

42:56 \u2013 Defensiveness creates more defensiveness.\xa0

44:29 \u2013 Jonathan's contact info, podcast and social media links.\xa0

Press Kit: http://bit.ly/JMPressKit\xa0
Website: https://www.mindfulcommunication.me\xa0
Mindful Communication Podcast: https://anchor.fm/podcast-863ccb8\xa0
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/millerdjonathan/\xa0
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulcommunication/\xa0
Tough Talks Made Easy: https://bit.ly/ToughTalksMadeEasy\xa0
Code: social50\xa0

Article: How to Deal with Defensiveness and Defensive People in Conversations\xa0

46:39: Jonathan\u2019s book recommendations.\xa0

Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most\xa0

Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life\xa0

Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind\xa0

48:01 \u2013 Outro\xa0

Chris on Twitter\xa0\xa0\xa0

Social-Engineer on Twitter\xa0\xa0

Social-Engineer on Instagram\xa0\xa0\xa0

Social-Engineer.org\xa0\xa0\xa0

Social-Engineer.com\xa0\xa0\xa0

The Human Hacking Conference\xa0\xa0

The Human Hacking Conference on Twitter\xa0\xa0

The Innocent Lives Foundation\xa0\xa0\xa0

The Innocent Lives Foundation on Twitter\xa0