b'I welcome back Jessica Lahey to discuss her New York Times Bestselling Book, "The Gift of Failure: Learning to Let Go so our children can succeed."We discuss the following (and so much more):\\n\\nWhy is society so fixated on points and scores rather than the actual process of learning?\\n\\nWhat is the difference between intrinsic and extrinsic motivators and why are they important?\\xa0\\n\\nWhat is the difference between autonomy and independence?\\n\\nWhat other options do you have if you don\\u2019t bribe, nag, or impose punishment in order to get kids to do what we want them to do?\\n\\nFor more about Jessica Lahey and her work, visit\\xa0https://www.jessicalahey.com/ or follow her on Instagram @teacherlahey'