Have you ever worked hard day in and day out, week after week, only to find yourself wondering why you\u2019re even doing what you\u2019re doing? Sometimes we are so focused on climbing the ladder that we don\u2019t notice it\u2019s leaning against the wrong wall \u2014 and this is because there are unintended consequences to setting your goals by looking forward. When you set goals looking forward, you miss the most important part of goal setting: where you\u2019re going and why you\u2019re going. If you don\u2019t have that purpose and priority before you set your goals and start working away at them, you can\u2019t be productive. So, in this episode, Clay Clark, Founder of ThriveTime Show and co-host of Business School Without the BS, is going to share when he realized he was living a life by default and how he started living a life by design. If you want this same experience facilitated for you, consider joining us at our Goal-Setting Retreat. In this episode, you will learn... [9:30] How you can start reclaiming your calendar and your time [19:00] The ONE thing that will make saying no easier or unnecessary [26:00] What Clay wishes he had done earlier (and what you can start doing now) Links and Tools From This Episode Learn more at thrivetimeshow.com Listen: Business School Without the BS -- Are you looking for your dream home? When your family is looking for a home, it can feel like everything you want is just a dream. We all have some unrealistic visions on home buying, but Realtor.com encourages you to get real about the process and find the perfect home for you. Realtor.com comes with all of the tools and features you need to find your home \u2014 because it\u2019s not about finding your dream home, but a home you can dream in. You can find your home to dream in at Realtor.com. -- Is your job Your ONE Thing? Sometimes you get to a point in your career where you look up and realize that what you\u2019re doing isn\u2019t Your ONE Thing. But we also know how challenging it can be to find a job that is just the right fit \u2013 and that\u2019s where ZipRecruiter comes in. All you have to do is download the ZipRecruiter Job Search app, let it know what kinds of jobs you\u2019re interested in, and the technology will do the hard work for you. Download the FREE ZipRecruiter Job Search app today: ziprecruiter.com/mobile. -- Are you thinking of making a big life change? Whether you\u2019re thinking of switching jobs, investing in your personal development, or making a big move in your personal life, a lot can come up to stop you \u2014 the uncertainty, the cost, the fear, or just not knowing where to start. If you\u2019ve been waiting for a sign that it\u2019s time for the next big thing in your life, say hello to Thinkful, a tech bootcamp focused around your success. You can launch a career completely online with the full support of a mentor, career coaches, and a network based in your local area. If you\u2019re ready to join the world\u2019s next workforce, head to thinkful.com/theONEthing to learn more.