When you set your goals, are you doing it by yourself or with your significant other? When we\u2019re not aligned with the people who are most important to us, the people who have a significant stake in our lives, we\u2019re eliminating one of the most powerful support systems we have \u2014 and putting obstacles in the path of our goals. So how can we get them on board with the goal-setting process, even if they\u2019re not goal setters themselves? In this episode, we\u2019re going to look at what one couple did in this exact situation, Kaelyn Loes and Brent Wallace. One of them was your prototypical goal setter \u2014 they read the book, listened to the podcast, used productivity apps \u2014 while the other felt that the goal-setting process restricted them at times. But today, they go on this journey together, and in this episode you\u2019ll learn about the tools and conversations that helped them come into alignment. If you want to put the ideas discussed in this episode into action, consider joining us at our Goal-Setting Retreat. And if you can\u2019t make it to Austin this year, we\u2019ll help you host your own retreat with the Kick Ass Guide\xae to Your Couples Goal Setting Retreat and the Goal Setting Retreat Master Course. In this episode, you will learn... [2:00] Why being disinterested or disengaged with your partner\u2019s goal-setting process can devalue their goals [6:00] How to support your goal-setting partner, even if you aren\u2019t a goal setter yourself [20:15] How going on of a couple\u2019s goal-setting retreat can change your relationship [27:50] How goal-setting retreats can create much-needed context around your partner\u2019s goals [31:00] What happens if you discover that you and your partner aren\u2019t aligned [41:15] Questions you can ask your partner to enlist their support in the goal-setting process Links and Tools From This Episode Join us at our Goal-Setting Retreat (Nov. 9th and 10th in Austin, TX): the1thing.com/event. Download the FREE Kick Ass Guide\xae to Your Couples Goal Setting Retreat We\u2019ll help you facilitate a retreat with the Goal Setting Retreat Master Course -- Are you looking for your dream home? When your family is looking for a home, it can feel like everything you want is just a dream. We all have some unrealistic visions on home buying, but Realtor.com encourages you to get real about the process and find the perfect home for you. Realtor.com comes with all of the tools and features you need to find your home \u2014 because it\u2019s not about finding your dream home, but a home you can dream in. You can find your home to dream in at Realtor.com. -- What\u2019s in your cologne or perfume? It\u2019s a question that more of us are asking these days, and it\u2019s one of the reasons we\u2019re excited to introduce you to Phlur, creators of stunning, non-toxic perfumes and colognes. But Phlur don\u2019t just make you smell great \u2013 they\u2019re also transparent about the ingredients in all of their products, so you know you\u2019re not putting anything on your body that you don\u2019t want to. Plus, all of their scents are gender-free and the sampling process is just plain fun. If you want to try your new, clean scent for 20% off, head over to Phlur.com/ONE. -- Do you run a small business? Small business owners wear a lot of hats. Some of those hats feel incredible to wear. However, filing taxes and running payroll... well, for most of us, they don\u2019t feel great and they\u2019re not our ONE thing. That\u2019s where Gusto comes in to help you make payroll, taxes, and HR easy. So ask yourself, it time to take off some of your hats? You can get three FREE months when you run your first payroll at Gusto.com/ONE.