"The Traditional Man Vs The 21st Century Man" Have men forgot how to be a real man? And also, what defines a "Real Man"? It is easy to become a daddy, but where are the Fathers? What is up with being a thug, dope-boy, and trapper? To the other extreme of being metro-sexual or openly gay. Are all men considered "dogs" by women? Are Men afraid of the marriage and commitment factor in taking their relationship to the next level?