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So many people have trouble orgasming and aren\u2019t experiencing true pleasure during sex. Today on The Bad Girls Bible, sexual and relational communication profession Dr. Tara joins us to discuss the three main blockers of orgasms and why sexual chemistry is so important! In this conversation, you\u2019ll hear all about Tara\u2019s conservative background, what led her to the USA, why she became a professor of relational and sexual communication, body neutrality, sexual empowerment, Tara\u2019s podcast, textbook, and the TV show she is in, and so much more! We delve into the three main reasons women struggle to orgasm before Tara shares her thoughts on the success of relationships with no sex or chemistry and how she helps her clients solve these issues. From attraction, to boundaries, to saying no, to the best positions for clitoral stimulation, to the use of vibrators, this episode has it all! We even discuss how same-sex schools affect sexuality in adulthood. Finally, our guest tells us all about what praise kink is. Thanks for tuning in!

Key Points From This Episode:

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 An introduction to today\u2019s guest, Dr. Tara.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 Tara\u2019s background and how she became a professor of relational and sexual communication.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 Why Tara loves the concept of body neutrality instead of body positivity.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 How sexual empowerment can solve the issue of women faking orgasms and hiding it.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 Tara tells us about her textbook and podcast and how she ended up on Celebs Go Dating.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 The three main reasons women struggle to orgasm: physical, psychological, and relational.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 Why Tara believes you cannot have a successful, happy, long-term relationship without sex.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 How scent contributes to sexual chemistry and why it doesn\u2019t ever lie to us.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 Tara\u2019s advice for what to do when in a sexless relationship with no chemistry.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 The different categories of attraction and how it can be developed.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 Why breaching boundaries is so detrimental in a relationship.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 The importance of chemistry and why it cannot be built from nothing.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 Tara speaks about the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 Why saying no is so liberating.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 The best, easiest positions for clitoral stimulation.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 Why men are generally so insecure about using vibrators and sex toys.

\u2022\xa0\xa0\xa0 What praise kink is and how a couple can explore it.

Quotes:

\u201cThe solution to the inability to orgasm or even to embrace pleasure overall is sexual empowerment.\u201d\xa0[0:07:57]

\u201cSo many different physical issues contribute to the inability to orgasm.\u201d [0:14:43]

\u201cEvery single person is entitled to what is right for them. If you're in a relationship that you don't have any sexual chemistry with your partner, it's your prerogative to decide if you want to do.\u201d\xa0[0:23:25]

\u201cA breach of boundaries is a killer of trust.\u201d [0:29:09]

\u201cFor me, the most important thing that I learned in my previous relationship that you can never get unless it was there is chemistry.\u201d\xa0[0:33:29]

\u201cThere is no good sex life \u2013 without communicating, without feeling confident, without feeling comfortable in your skin.\u201d\xa0[0:42:04]

Links Mentioned in Today\u2019s Episode:

Luvbites by Dr. Tara \u2014 https://www.luvbites.co/

Dr. Tara Email Address \u2014 teamdrtara@clique-now.com

Dr. Tara on LinkedIn \u2014 https://www.linkedin.com/in/drtaraluvbites/

Dr. Tara on Instagram \u2014 https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/
Dr. Tara on TikTok \u2014 https://www.tiktok.com/@luvbites.co

Dr. Tara on X \u2014 https://twitter.com/luvbitesco

Sexual Communication: Research in Action \u2014 https://books.google.co.za/books/about/Sexual_Communication.html?id=KRRVzwEACAAJ&redir_esc=y

Celebs Go Dating \u2014 https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5993484/

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter \u2014 https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter