#31 How To Fix A Sexless Marriage & Reignite Fiery Passion with Laurie Watson

Published: Jan. 21, 2019, midnight

On today\u2019s show we welcome Laurie Watson. Laurie is a Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Couple\u2019s Counselor and author of Wanting Sex Again: How to Rediscover Desire and Heal a Sexless Marriage. She is also the co-host of a podcast along with Dr. Adam Matthews called Foreplay: Radio Sex Therapy for Couples, designed to help couples keep it hot.

In clinical therapy, she has helped thousands of couples recover sexual passion and make love again in joyful, intimate, creative and exciting ways, sometimes even after years of sexless marriage. Inside this episode we dive into the topic of people wanting to reignite their passion and the desire that\u2019s lost in a marriages or relationships. Laurie shares some incredible strategies to help you get back that fiery passion, today. We also diving into Laurie\u2019s 444 Solution and getting your SEX confidence back!

Show Highlights
  • Laurie\u2019s background and how she came to writing Wanting Sex Again.
  • How a good marriage becomes a sexless marriage.
  • The power struggle between the pursuer and the \u201cdistancer\u201d in the relationship.
  • Examples of a pursuer and a distant person.
  • Understanding the concept of Attachment theory.
  • Detailed talkers versus bullet point talkers.
  • Importance of secure attachment.
  • Doing a self analysis to understand where you are at personally (and your relationship).
  • Laurie\u2019s 444 Solution and how to use it in your relationship.
  • What birth control can do to a woman\u2019s libido.
  • The Madonna Whore Syndrome.
  • Common issues affecting couples in their sex lives.
  • Getting your self confidence and body confidence back.
  • And so much more!
Tweetables

\u201cWithin two years of marriage, one third of all couples are sexless.\u201d \u2014 @asklauriewatson [0:03:31.1]

\u201cIf there\u2019s no big bang, there\u2019s no big deal.\u201d \u2014 @asklauriewatson [0:09:12.1]

\u201cWe need a talking avenue and we need a physical touching avenue to really have secure attachment.\u201d \u2014 @asklauriewatson [0:15:53.1]

Links Mentioned in Today\u2019s Episode

Laurie Watson \u2014 http://lauriewatson.com/

Laurie\u2019s Website \u2014 https://awakeningscenter.org/

Laurie on Twitter \u2014 https://twitter.com/asklauriewatson

Laurie on Facebook \u2014 https://www.facebook.com/foreplayrst/

Laurie on Instagram \u2014 https://www.instagram.com/foreplay_radiosextherapy/

Laurie on LinkedIn \u2014 https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurie-watson-436b551a/

Wanting Sex Again: How to Rediscover Desire and Heal a Sexless Marriage \u2014 https://www.amazon.com/Laurie-Watson-Wanting-Sex-Again/dp/B00G4GDCVI/

FOREPLAY: Radio Sex Therapy for Couples \u2014 http://foreplayrst.com/

Awakenings Center \u2014 https://awakeningscenter.org/

Love and Sex Quiz \u2014 https://awakeningscenter.org/love-sex-quiz/

Make Love Not Porn \u2014 makelovenotporn.tv