Weekly Mini-Episode: Why Waiting For Motivation In Your Dating Life Is Useless

Published: Jan. 14, 2024, 6:51 p.m.

Main Topics: Dating, Motivation, Ego, Fear

In this week's mini-episode, I discuss the common desire to wait for motivation before taking action in various areas of life, but especially dating. I explain that motivation may never come if there are underlying patterns of resistance and fear.\xa0

Takeaways

\U0001f525 Waiting for motivation to take action may prevent progress, as motivation may never come.
\U0001f525Our identities and egos often prioritize comfort over growth, even if that comfort is unhappy or unfulfilling.
\U0001f525We unconsciously search for evidence to support our negative beliefs, making it difficult to change them.
\U0001f525Having structure, accountability, and support is crucial for making lasting changes in our lives.

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