EP92: Conversation With a Dominatrix - Squirting, Desires Negotiation, BDSM & Dom Misconceptions Featuring Lola Jean

Published: Aug. 18, 2021, 6 a.m.

What is it like being a professional dominatrix?

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Do different dominatrices have different ways of working?

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Why do we have disconnected sex?

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Who is responsible for your partners' orgasm?

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All of these and sooo much more answered in this podcast episode.

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I am joined by Lola Jean, a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, pro Domme, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting.

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We talked about so much on this episode BDSM, Spanking, pegging, impulse control, communicating sexual desires, socialised sexual desire and porn.

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The key topics are:

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\U0001f52c Spanking from and love and kindness

\U0001f52c What is a fetish

\U0001f52c Common misconceptions about being a dominatrix

\U0001f52c Why you are having disconnected sex

\U0001f52c The different types of dominatrix

\U0001f52c How to find a middle ground between you and your partners' desires

\U0001f52c How to recontextualise our fantasies to get buy-in from our partners

\U0001f52c You don't choose your sexual desires

\U0001f52c Why focusing on female pleasure is creating more pressure on women

\U0001f52c Who's responsibility is it to make you cum

\U0001f52c Why do some bodies find it hard to cum than others

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Connect With Lola Jean:

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Website:\xa0\xa0lolajean.com

Workshops: https://lolajean.com/quick-n-dirty2\xa0

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For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net

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