EP146: Dating & Relationship Success For Avoidant Men and Lessons From Being An Avoidant & Commitment Phobe Man and Featuring David Chambers

Published: July 19, 2023, 4:30 a.m.

In this week\u2019s episode, you get me. You get a raw, honest and from-the-heart episode about my journey as an avoidant and commitment-phobe man and everything that I have learnt and now coach my clients through.

\xa0

Let me give you an introduction to me & my avoidance because it might not be that obvious.\xa0

\xa0

You\u2019ve seen me through the podcast, and my Instagram and you might think - \u201cDavid is an open-hearted, sharing, vulnerable, emotional guy\u201d.

\xa0

But I wasn\u2019t always this way. It was a long time where I didn\u2019t want to say how I felt, I\u2019d avoided certain conflict situations, I\u2019ve even refused to be in relationships for a while. I just wouldn\u2019t get into relationships even though I\u2019ve met women who are truly amazing, and lovely and wanted depth, but I was just - \u201cNo, relationships that are worth it I want them to go away. I don\u2019t want commitment\u201d.\xa0

Key topics include:\xa0

\u2b50\ufe0f Dating & Relationships with Avoidant Men, Common Characteristics and Behaviors

\u2b50\ufe0f How an Avoidant Man Can Create Healthy Relationships and Friendships

\u2b50 Avoiding Expressing Fears, Needs, Worries. Down Playing Our Emotions

\u2b50\ufe0f Lack of Empathy for Us and Other People\u2019s Emotional Experiences

\u2b50\ufe0f Fault-Finding, Being Highly Critical of the People We Meet\xa0\xa0

\u2b50\ufe0f Fear of Being Dependent on Other People, and Handling Rejection

\u2b50\ufe0f Facing Our Loneliness & The Need of Alone Time

\u2b50\ufe0f The Behaviour of Cheating in an Relationship

\u2b50\ufe0f Avoiding To Take Responsibility for Our Whole Well Being\xa0

\u2b50\ufe0f The Push-Pull, Hot-Cold, Being Mysterious Dynamic\xa0

\xa0

\u2705 I have just opened up registration for the upcoming September 2023 cohort of my 12-week programme \u201cBeing An Authentic Masculine Man\u201d, AKA B.A.A.M.M. Register interest here: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49

\U0001f525What other men said after being on the programme:

\U0001f449\U0001f3fd "I\u2019m not the same person I was before I entered it. This program has completely changed me"

\U0001f449\U0001f3fd \u201cThe programme helped me to distil and strengthen learnings I had but wasn't yet able to use effectively. It unlocked a core of self-belief and positive energy I hadn\u2019t tapped into before\u201d

\U0001f449\U0001f3fd "I feel ready to create the life that I want for myself"

\U0001f449\U0001f3fd "It\u2019s been one of the most valuable, enriching and life-affirming experiences of my life"

\U0001f449\U0001f3fd "I think this was one of the most profound learnings I have had about the type of life I want."

\xa0

The registration link: https://forms.gle/rb4MJfo6XdHVXEG49



Connect With David - The Authentic Man:

\xa0

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/\xa0

Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/\xa0

For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net\xa0

Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe\xa0