E316 | Why Positivity Isn't Always the Answer

Published: March 4, 2024, 5:01 a.m.

\u201cJust stay positive!\xa0 You\u2019ll figure it out.\xa0 Stick with it!\xa0 Keep grinding \U0001f4aa\xa0 Don\u2019t forget to practice gratitude. \U0001f64f\u201d\nThese are just a few of the commonly used phrases we hear from those who pound the positive leadership drum over, and over, and over again.\xa0 Though well-intentioned, messages like these perpetuate the myth that a leader should always be positive, putting an immense amount of pressure on people to live up to a heroic ideal.\xa0 In the real world, we\u2019re all just human, and embracing that is the key to being a more genuine, authentic, and skillful leader.\n\xa0In today\u2019s episode, we:\nExplain the consequences of forced positivity\nDiscuss the purposes of all 6 primary emotions\xa0\nBreak down how to recognize, manage, and use \u201cnegative emotions\u201d to enhance our leadership skills\nReferenced Resources:\nIf this episode struck a nerve and you\u2019d like to dive deeper or you have specific questions, we\u2019d love to interact with you in our online community - Mighty Networks.\xa0 This is our answer to the shortcomings of other social media platforms, and allows our team to deliver a steady stream of content that directly addresses your needs!\xa0 This is the best-kept secret of our Art Of Coaching offerings and is less than $20 per month! You can cancel for free at any time, so why not give us a chance to provide you with value?\xa0 Sign up HERE today!\nThere is so much more to leadership than just being positive.\xa0 Humans are complex and communication is like any skill, it must be understood and practiced.\xa0 There is no better place to get the knowledge and application you need than at The Apprenticeship.\xa0 If you\u2019d like to trade mantras for impact, nothing packs a punch like experiential learning with a like-minded group of peers.\xa0 Words don\u2019t do it justice! Come see us April 20th-21st in Phoenix, AZ!\xa0\nNewsletter: Be the first to access all our live events & latest Free Resources and receive exclusive discounts!\nYour opinion and feedback matters to us!\xa0 Realistically, it\u2019s the only way we know if the time and effort we put into our podcast each week is worth it!\xa0 So If this episode was helpful and you appreciated the topic, please do us a favor and leave us a review on iTunes and share the episode with anyone else you think would benefit from it.\xa0 This helps us more than you know, and we can\u2019t thank you enough for your time, effort, and support!\xa0 And, as always, if you have any questions or specific topics you\u2019d like to hear about, reach out to us directly at info@artofcoaching.com.\nReferenced Material:\nE252: Strategies For Combating The Holiday Blues & Getting Out Of A Rut\nToday\u2019s podcast is brought to you by BetterHelp: Listen, life does not come with a user manual. You don't need me to tell you that. So when it's not working for you, maybe you feel like you're in a funk, maybe you're having a hard time making a decision, maybe you just need somebody to listen to you. It is an asset to be able to reach out to the world's largest therapy service. Better help has matched 3 million people with Professionally licensed and bedded therapists that are available 100% online, and it's affordable.\xa0 Go to betterhelp.com/aoc.