E200 | What to Do When Trying to Help Makes Things Worse

Published: Dec. 13, 2021, 5:01 a.m.

It\u2019s a frustrating situation. You\u2019re going out of your way to help someone out and it\u2019s just not taking. You can\u2019t get through to them. They don\u2019t want to listen. You might even feel like your attempt to help has made the situation worse. What gives!?\nHelp me, help you. Help me\u2026Help you!\xa0\nYou might be surprised to hear that maybe you\u2019re the problem.\xa0\nIn this short, digestible, actionable episode I cover the strategies and tools necessary for you to gain clarity of the situation so that you can create buy-in and have the impact you\u2019re looking for. Including:\nThe most likely reasons you\u2019re probably not getting across to someone\xa0\n8 questions you should ask yourself before diving into problem solving mode\nThe ONE thing you must have in order to help someone effectively\nDefining social agility and strategies to improve it\xa0\nRight now I\u2019m offering signed and personalized copies of my book, Conscious Coaching for just $10 (50% off the Amazon price). Go to artofcoaching.com/book to get yours (supplies are limited)!\nAlso, be sure to check out our new gift guide at artofcoaching.com/shop - included are new t-shirts, sweats, beanies, mugs and even some graphic tees. If you\u2019re still gift hunting, these are perfect for any coach or leader.\xa0\nOnly THREE spots remain at our NY/NJ Apprenticeship, January 22-23, 2022! Click here to get yours today!\nFinally, a big shoutout to our sponsors. LMNT is offering a FREE sample pack of 8 flavors (just pay $5 shipping). Head to DrinkLMNT.com/AOC to claim yours. To get all of our partner discounts for Momentous, SAGA, VersaClimber, DFND and Ice Barrel, click here to learn more.