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The year after your divorce is filled with "firsts"

First night/weekend without your kids

This can be very emotional. \xa0Even though you've most likely been away from your kids for periods of time in the past, the fact that it is court ordered and you don't have a choice can bring a flood of emotions


First church service

This was tough for me. \xa0Sitting there without my wife beside me was almost more than I could take. \xa0I also had to face the fact that I was angry with God for allowing my divorce to happen


First Birthdays

Yours
Your kid's
Your ex's
Parties are tough especially if you try to have a combined party for your kids


First Holidays

With family gatherings, work parties, and dealing with not having your kids over the holidays you can be set up for an ambush of emotions. \xa0From anger to depression, the first holidays after your divorce can be anything but happy.


First Time You See Your Ex With A New BF/GF

This can be especially tough because it is usually not planned. \xa0The ambush of emotions that come flooding in can overwhelm you.



How To Deal With Firsts
In the first months or even a year after your divorce you really need to lean on your friends and family for support. \xa0Don't be too proud to tell people how you are feeling. \xa0 This is not a time to "man up". \xa0 You also need to lean on your faith. \xa0I clung tightly to my faith in the months and years after my divorce and it helped to pull me through. \xa0As it says in Phil 4:13 we really can do all things\xa0through\xa0him who gives us strength.
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