EP012: Dealing with the Anxiety of Starting Over in Your 40s

Published: Dec. 3, 2015, 9 a.m.

We don\u2019t always plan on being pushed in the right direction and more often than not it takes us by surprise, especially when we are in our 40\u2019s. It usually happens when we take a deep breath and decide to martyr our lives for those we care about. In Ellen\u2019s case, her push came right after she bought her coveted little red corvette. She suddenly found herself needing a new way to support her family. And, instead of wallowing in anxiety she channeled her father\u2019s wisdom and chose to do something that would make her happy for the rest of her life.

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Key Takeaways:

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[2:13] A special passage for Ellen

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[3:28] How Ellen and Ann met

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[4:07] Ellen\u2019s big push was unplanned

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[8:25] There was a thread of confidence, even when I felt small

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[11:58] Little Red Corvette had to go away

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[13:55] Starting over and re-grouping in your 40\u2019s

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[16:00] Ellen focused on fulfilling a need instead of building a business

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[19:45] It\u2019s not about the money, it\u2019s about what you would be happy doing for the rest of your life

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[22:15] Eliminating distractions allowed me to focus on my phenomenal workout

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[28:49] Think, Speak, Be

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[34:45] Many women don\u2019t support other women

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[36:55] Reference episode #8 for an additional conversation of people who draw energy from us

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[38:58] Women put themselves in the role of the martyr

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[41:01] Ann\u2019s excuse for not working out and her current fitness plan

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[42:55] Chapter 1 - Why gyms don\u2019t work, but group training does

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[50:17] The right trainer will change your life

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[52:04] Get a copy of Ellen\u2019s book, Push

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[53:02] Ellen\u2019s advice - Wake up and decide to be a better version of yourself

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[55:14] Join our private Facebook community - Straight Talk for a Curvy World

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Mentions:

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Orangetheory Fitness

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Inc.

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Daring Greatly

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Brainblocks

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elatham@orangetheoryfitness.com

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Push - Ellen Latham

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AnnPeck.com

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@iamannpeck

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ann@annpeck.com

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Straight Talk for a Curvy World (linked to the iTunes review section)

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