Bob\u2019s major use of drugs and alcohol stared after high school, following a bad breakup.\xa0 Bob incidentally was taken to a twelve-step meeting which brought him into two years of sobriety, though it ended when he toasted his brother at his wedding.\xa0 Years later, he wound up in jail.\xa0 Bob was not only an addict, but a serial abuser of his wife and kids.\xa0 And in jail, under physical threat by the other inmates, he decided to get sober for good.