In ordinary life we hardly realize that we receive a great deal more than we give, and that it is with gratitude that life becomes rich. We are always told that why choose ordinary life if extraordinary is one step ahead. Ask yourself where is this extraordinary life that we are told about because extraordinary life becomes a ordinary life after a certain period as extraordinary is just there for a small peak and the rest is a ordinary life. It is like when you want a boyfriend or girlfriend at the being if you meet him or her the face is still new to you but after a while there is nothing about it. The secret of life isn't what happens to you and what you have, but what do with what happens to you and how much you appreciate what you have.