Stacey recently came across a story of a woman who has been married for quite some time and recently her husband told her that she has to make some more effort. Seeing as it has been a whole pandemic the woman didn't feel the need to constantly dress up and look her best, but her husband is willing to hire someone to help her act more ladylike. Stacey and J Sbu then asked the question - is he being too honest? Should he have kept these thoughts to himself or is it admirable of him to tell his wife what he really thinks even though she might not like his opinion? KZN also had a few thoughts to share...