http://radical-acceptance.com\nRelationships are hard work and that's just the way it is. It's all about working consciously and moving into a greater level of maturity. The real goal is personal growth, and relationships - no matter how difficult - are ideally designed to help you grow. Love doesn't keep the relationship together; matching neuroses do!\nChristopher Oliphant and Ronna Smithrim in conversation with Hugh Reilly and Jen Frankel on Liquid Lunch at http://www.thatchannel.com