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Treva Brandon Scharf is a Los Angeles based writer, dating coach, fitness professional, radio host, and first-time bride at 50. With over 35 years in the fitness industry, and many more in the dating world, Treva knows first-hand how to achieve peak performance in both life and love. Treva writes about surviving singledom and finding love later in life at her blog, \u201cThe Late Blooming Bride\u201d. She\u2019s also a contributor at Huffington Post, Hollywood Progressive, Midlife Boulevard, Curves Connect, and BetterAfter50. Treva currently hosts the internet radio dating show \u201cDone Being Single,\u201d with her husband Robby, on the VoiceAmerica Radio Network. When she\u2019s not imparting dating wisdom or tough love, Treva volunteers as a Special Olympics coach, and a Fulfillment Fund mentor. Guiding Principle, Quote, or Mantra Surrender. When You Tripped Up Treva described her entire single life as a bunch of trip-ups and falls. Everything was trial and error. She\u2019d meet a guy, date the guy, and break up with the guy. The worst trip up was with someone she met in her early 40\u2019s. She was hell bent on making it work. The stakes were high and there was a lot riding on it, and her fertility window was closing. But, this happened to be the worst guy possible to try and make things work with. Listen to the podcast to hear the rest of the story. Your thoughts around men in their 50\u2019s and why they haven\u2019t been married until now? When she first started to know her husband, she would always be asking questions about this topic. Things like \u2013 Why haven\u2019t you been married before? Why are you single? There has to be something wrong with you? \u2026 In her husband\u2019s case, he simply didn\u2019t meet the right one. On the other side of things, she would be asked the same kind of stuff. People always assume something is wrong with the person if they haven\u2019t been married. That\u2019s just simply not the case. What is the Best Partnership Advice You Have Ever Received? Treva didn\u2019t have any great advice. She felt she had poor role models. The Payoff of Partnership Treva is very independent and has always been used to doing things for herself. She was even a single child who never had the older sister or brother pave the way for her. What\u2019s so great about partnership to Treva is having someone take care of her. She\u2019s never had that in her life. Her husband is this great person who\u2019s there for her and supports her. Best Partnership Resource The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom \u2013 Don Miguel Ruiz Interview Links \u2013 Her Website The Late Blooming Bride Done Being Single Twitter Instagram Facebook