Susan Ortolano was once a little girl dreaming about love, weddings, white picket fences, and a handsome guy on the white horse. After years of bad, painful relationships and a failed marriage, she discovered the real reason she hadn\u2019t yet found true love. Through much personal growth work, she\u2019s now a happily remarried lady! \nHer personal experiences along with a devastating illness inspired her to transition from award winning School Teacher to Intuitive Relationship Coach and Educator. \nSusan skillfully combines her finely tuned clairvoyant skills with her coaching to teach people to master the art of successful relationships. \nShe is also the author of the recently released book- Remarrying Right How to create everlasting love with your true soul mate.\nPersonally, Susan admits to being a a hopeless romantic. She loves humor, helping others, studying spirituality and astrology. \nShe & her husband Rick live north of Los Angeles.\nJoin Susan\u2019s online interview series for FREE \u2013\xa0Manifesting Love Again\n\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\nYour outer reflection is a direct result of your inner reality. \nSo whatever stories, whatever programs, whatever thoughts and feelings that we carry with us, get projected outwards towards us.\nWhen You Tripped Up \nSusan\u2019s early romantic life was not pretty.\xa0 She felt like she was stuck in pattern after pattern.\nHer first marriage was her trip up moment.\xa0 She really learned how her outward reality was a direct reflection of her inner reality.\nShe married a man that did everything she was afraid a man would do to her.\nSusan did not love or value herself enough and she didn\u2019t hold good boundaries.\xa0 And ended up marrying a man who cheated and lied and took money and came and went as he pleased.\xa0\nThis brought up so much anguish and pain for her.\nShe left that marriage with the realization that she had done that to herself.\nThe \u201cDUH\u201d moment that changed your partnerships forever\nAfter Susan\u2019s first marriage ended, she met another guy who said \u201cYou are the greatest gal I\u2019ve ever met, but I really don\u2019t think I\u2019m in love with you.\u201d\nBut she convinced him to stay in the relationship.\xa0 She even convinced him to propose to her.\nSusan\u2019s \u201cDuh\u201d moment was when she was in grad school doing a visioning exercise where they were instructed to envision their relationship with no one specific in mind.\xa0 Instead just envision what she wanted.\nWhen she created her vision of her ideal relationship she realized it did not include the guy she was with.\nIt was like \u201cDuh, I created the same pattern as I had with my first husband.\xa0 Just with a nicer guy.\u201d\nIn that moment she decided she would rather be single the rest of her life than ever settle again.\xa0 And she meant it!\nThis commitment opened up the world to her, and within a month she got together with her current husband. And they have been married over 15 years now.\nProudest moment in partnership \nMarrying her husband is one of Susan\u2019s proudest moments.\xa0 Because it came from such a deep knowingness.\nShe has never felt more loved, more cherished, more cared for or more accepted in her life.\nTo see his eyes light up when she walks into the room is beyond words.\xa0 It is the energetics that happen between the two of them. \nThere is what she calls an \u201cis-ness\u201d between them.\nRick is what she had dreamed of in a relationship.\xa0 It is as good as it looks, even better.\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\nTake ownership for every thought, feeling and experience you have. \nEverything that you experience comes from something that lives within you.\xa0 And you are the only one who can clear,