Scot and Emily McKay are professional dating and relationship coaches, authors and podcast hosts.\nTogether they founded X & Y Communications in San Antonio, TX, which focuses on equipping and empowering men and women to go from good to great in their relationships.\nThey reach over 300,000 people all over the world through their newsletters, podcasts and social media. And are the authors of ten books between them and have been featured by over 400 media outlets worldwide.\nScot is also a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author and the host of the top-ten ranked podcast on iTunes, \u201cThe Chick Whisperer\u201d.\nThey are both Traveler\u2019s Century Club members, having traveled the world extensively, often with their four children. They even have a travel blog and podcast.\nAnd at the end of the show we will make sure you know where you can subscribe to their popular newsletter and podcasts\u2026all for free.\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\nDeserve what you want.\nIn order to attract the partner you want, you first have to be the kind of partner that will be attractive to them.\nThey apply this in their business too.\xa0 In order to build partnerships with their peers they needed to give before they thought about getting.\nThe \u201cDUH\u201d moment that changed your partnerships forever\nIn terms of his and Emily\u2019s relationship it has been world travel.\xa0\nEven though they worked for themselves and are location independent, after they got married and had a child they thought they were now home bound.\nThey finally realized they could take \u201cjunior\u201d with them.\xa0 And since 2009 they travel about 3 months out of every year and world school their kids. \nThis gives them the opportunity to see the world through the eyes of their children as well.\nProudest moment in partnership \nScot \u2013 When he was a kid, all Scot wanted to do was be a BMX racer.\xa0 His dream was to ride for a factory BMX team.\nIn 1999 he found out the biggest class of BMX racing was guys his age on bigger bikes.\nScot decided to start a team just for guys over the age of 28, and it was a HUGE success.\nThe day his team was elevated to a factory team, was the day he fulfilled this bucket list item.\nThe proudest part of this was Scot did not wait for someone to invite him to join a team, he started the team.\nEmily \u2013 She quit her job to work with Scot and X & Y Communications and raise the kids.\nAnd Emily realized she needed some girl friends and adult conversation.\xa0 So she started a group for moms.\nShe partnered with restaurants and businesses to provide discounts for the families that were in her group.\xa0 And the kids made friends they still have now, years later. \nShe became the queen of stay at home mom\u2019s for San Antonio, Texas.\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\nScot \u2013 Always get into relationships where you both look forward to and expect the best from each other.\nEmily \u2013 Be a good communicator so when you step on your partner\u2019s toes you can talk about it.\nBest Partnership Book\nScot \u2013\xa0\n\nDavid Livingstone: Africa\u2019s Trailblazer (Christian Heroes: Then & Now)\nHe was a connector and was incredible in building partnerships and alliances between very culturally different groups.\nEmily \u2013\xa0\n<a href="https://www.amazon.