Sandy Weiner When it feels like too much

Published: March 21, 2016, 1 p.m.

Sandy Weiner is the founder of Last First Date, and is devoted to helping women achieve healthy, off-the-charts love in the 2nd half of life. \nAn internationally known TEDx speaker, she has contributed hundreds of articles to publications including the Huffington Post, Psychology Today, and The Good Men Project, and is the dating expert at Better After 50.\xa0 She\u2019s also the host of Last First Date Radio\nHer specialty is in helping women communicate effectively, set clear boundaries in relationships, and value themselves.\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\n\u201cI\u2019ve learned that people will forget what you said.\xa0 People will forget what you did.\xa0 But people will never forget how you made them feel.\u201d \u2013 Maya Angelou\nTripped Up in a Partnership\nSandy was uncomfortable with a business partnership she was in and ultimately the partnership collapsed right before they were going to launch their offering.\xa0 What she learned is the importance of clarity.\nThe \u201cDUH\u201d moment that changed your partnerships forever\nThe big DUH for her was her marriage.\xa0 She was with the wrong person for 23 years and no longer believed love was possible.\xa0 Then she had a wake up call and hope was renewed.\xa0\nProudest moment in partnership \nShe and her ex-husband parented very differently and it was very divisive.\xa0 She learned how to see the partnership in a new way.\xa0 This new perspective led to her daughter saying \u201cIt feels better here.\u201d\nCurrent Partnership that Has You Excited\nSandy\u2019s partnership with a fellow coach to be accountability partners for each other and what this partnership has supported her in accomplishing in her life. \nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\n\nBest Partnership Book\n\nDaring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead\nParting Advice\nGetting support.\xa0 Whenever you feel like something is too much.\xa0 There\u2019s no way you can do it.\xa0 Ask yourself, \u201cWho can support me.\xa0 How can I get support?\u201d\xa0 It is really healthy to ask for support.\xa0 It is a sign of strength.\nInterview Links \u2013 \nSandy\u2019s Website \u2013 www.lastfirstdate.com\nSandy\u2019s Facebook Group \u2013 A great place for real advice on dating \nLast First Date Radio Show\nLast First Date Blab\n