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Rodolfo is an author, speaker, and heart coach on a mission to Inspire 1 Million Hearts.\xa0\nHe has already touched the lives of thousands of people from all around the world.\xa0\nRodolfo has shared the stage with some of the world\u2019s greatest leaders in transformational consciousness and is featured alongside people like Eckhart Tolle, Lisa Nichols, John Assaraf, Ken Wilbur, and T. Harv Ecker. \nHis books on love, life, beauty, relationship, and self-discovery are read by people all around the world.\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\nLove is not a possession to be exchanged.\xa0 It is a resonance to be recognized. \nWe often think of love as something that is given and received, but that makes it an object and a possession.\xa0 \xa0 Which means it is something that can be lost.\nThe recognition of the resonance of love is a recognition of what you are feeling inside.\xa0 It has nothing to do with the other person.\nLove is something that is always there, but sometimes we forget and don\u2019t recognize it. \nWhen You Tripped Up \nOne of Rodolfo\u2019s more recent relationships was long distance.\xa0 And his partner ended up cheating on him, and he knew it was coming.\xa0 And he was preparing himself as he waited for her to tell him.\nWhen she finally came out and told him, he was able to forgive her very easily because he had already done his own work around it.\nThe trip-up was that the forgave but he didn\u2019t express his process or his own pain.\xa0 And that gave her the message that she could walk all over him because it doesn\u2019t effect him.\xa0 When really that wasn\u2019t the case.\nSo when you go through things that cause us pain or hurt or there is some challenge, forgive, let go, surrender, move on but express.\xa0 Because what you don\u2019t express you suppress and anything suppressed comes back up to haunt you.\nThe \u201cDUH\u201d moment that changed your partnerships forever\nRodolfo\u2019s \u201cDUH\u201d moment has to do with him not embodying the concept that he is only responsible for himself.\nIn a past partnership there was a moment when he realized he had absolutely no control over how she felt about a situation.\xa0 He cannot be responsible for her.\nResponsibility is the ability to respond.\xa0 And there are times when we just don\u2019t have the power to respond to something.\nIn the past when he would take on responsibility for his partner\u2019s feelings when he really did not have the power to, it made him feel helpless.\xa0 And that helplessness caused other issues in his relationships.\nAnd realizing that he is not responsibly for her history was the biggest \u201cDUH.\u201d\nOften at the beginning of relationships, as soon as we feel safe enough to be vulnerable with our partner, the first things that are going to come up are the wounds of the past.\nAnd the mistake that\u2019s made is people thing that its the partnership they are in right now creating those wounds or that trigger.\xa0 When really their current partnership is creating the space for the wounds to come up to be healed.\n Proudest moment in partnership \nMoments of presence and surrender with a partner.\xa0 He is excited and happy that he was able to let go with this person.\nIn a partnership whatever you can mentalize or theorize or coach is never going to be enough until you give them you and be vulnerable with them.\nOne of Rodolfo\u2019s proudest moments is anytime he can put all his guards down and say \u201chere I am.\u201d and trust he is in safe hands.\nCurrent Partnership that Has You Excited\nRodolfo\u2019s partnership with himself is where his focus is now.\xa0 He is in a year practice of silence and this is giving himself space to observe himself and letting himself receive.\nHe is typically a giver in relationships.\xa0 And as much as his partner gives to him, he is not typically receiving what he is being given.\nThe practice he has started is thinking, what little gift can he give himself so he can practice recei...