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Orna and Matthew Walters are Soulmate Coaches for professional single women, and the founders of the Love On Purpose Revolution\xae a global online event dedicated to busting the myth that love is supposed to happen by accident.\nOrna and Matthew work with clients all over the globe utilizing the tools of transformation. They are dedicated to spreading the message that having love is an inside job and that it\u2019s never too late to find the love of your life.\nThrough Creating Love On Purpose\xae, Orna and Matthew have inspired and guided thousands of Singles through the journey of self-love to bringing in their Beloved.\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\nOrna \u2013 The greatest thing you\u2019ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.\xa0 (from the song Nature Boy)\nThey have the agreement to never withhold love from each other and they choose each other. \nIn conflict it is not about who is right and who is wrong.\xa0 It\u2019s really about being able to speak your truth to your partner and share how you feel.\nThis is how we can have what our soul desires, which is emotional connection. \nMatthew \u2013 His guiding principle comes from an aboriginal greeting which goes like this:\xa0 The first person says \u201cI see you.\u201d\xa0 and the other person says \u201cIt\u2019s good to be seen.\u201d\nThis is what we are really looking for in intimate relationships.\nWhen we are truly seen by our partner the argument itself goes away.\xa0 It doesn\u2019t matter anymore.\nWhen You Tripped Up \nOrna \u2013 They have a practice of finding the golden nugget whenever a relationship didn\u2019t work out.\xa0\nThey would ask \u201cWhy this person?\u201d\xa0 What was it they needed to learn from that relationship to lead them to their next relationship?\nIn 2000, Orna was in a relationship with a guy named Steve.\xa0 Their relationship ended and she just could not find the golden nugget.\nThen it came to her.\xa0 Steve\u2019s family loved each other respectfully which was not familiar to her from her family of origin.\nIn her family of origin love did not mean respect, it meant I can do anything to you.\nThe gold nugget was that respectful love has a boundary, and she saw this in practice with Steve\u2019s family.\nMatthew \u2013 In the Spring before he met Orna he was dating a woman who externally was everything he thought he wanted.\xa0\nShe was living a life that he thought reflected a lot of his own values and he got really attached early on and thought she was the one.\nTheir dynamic was not good at all and he convinced her to stay in relationship with him even though there was lots of drama.\nWhen he finally realized that she was showing up for him so he could learn how to love and respect himself.\xa0\nHe would work on whatever she said she didn\u2019t like about him, but there was always something else.\xa0 And there would always be something else, because it was a reflection of his own lack of self love.\nThen he got it when he recognized that he had to love the parts of him that he didn\u2019t like.\nIf someone tells you you need to change, there is always a level of resistance to it.\xa0 But if someone says you don\u2019t need to change, now there is room to change.\nProudest moment in partnership \nMatthew \u2013 This was a moment he stepped up for himself and that gives him pride.\nEarly on in his relationship with Orna, they were having a late night argument.\nIn the middle of the argument he realized that in the past, this was when he would normally leave.\xa0 And he said, \u201cI\u2019m not leaving.\xa0 I\u2019m not going anywhere.\xa0 I\u2019m hear for you.\u201d\nBefore, he had always left.\xa0\nThis time, he realized she was too important for him.\xa0 And in that moment he knew they were going to be together.\nOrna \u2013 A month after she and Matthew started dating, her mother had 4 heart attacks and lived to tell the tale.\xa0\nMatthew basically met her entire family in the ICU unit at Tarzana Hospital.