Leslie Ziemba is a Love Coach, Author and Time Line Therapy\xae Specialist who assists men and women to overcome challenges related to dating in mid-life and guiding them to having a thriving life and love! \nHer personal story, work and book reflect pure vulnerability, authenticity and the \u201cBig Sister \u2013 Real Talk\u201d we often need to help us get out of our own way.\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\nWhy am I attracting this situation to me?\nWhat is my part in this?\xa0 What did I do to cause this?\nLeslie steps outside of herself to check in with her perspective and with the other party\u2019s perspective to see where might be able to come to a compromise. \nYou do have a part in what is happening.\xa0 It is not all about what someone did to you.\nWhen You Tripped Up \nLeslie had a business partner who is also a good friend and he sent her a text that pissed her off.\xa0 And she spouted off to him via text.\nWhen he called to address the issue, she was aware that she was not in a position or frame of mind to have a talk with him, so she sent it to voicemail.\nWhen she was in a better place she got ready to text him back and recognized this is not how she conducts her life and she needed to speak with him.\nEven though she does this work every day, we all fall short at times. \xa0 Fortunately, she caught herself just before she tripped and made a better choice to call him instead of text him.\nThe \u201cDUH\u201d moment that changed your partnerships forever\nLeslie was in a relationship at the very beginning of her personal growth journey.\xa0 And he was her holy assignment.\xa0 She was determined to learn whatever she could from this relationship.\nThey had been together for about a year and got into a very big argument, with many unkind things said on both parts.\nWhen this happened, Leslie called a girlfriend and told her what he did to her.\xa0 And that girlfriend supported her in her victim mindset and added to it.\nUltimately the relationship did end.\xa0\nWhen Leslie reviewed what happened she realized that this friend had pushed all of her fear and drama buttons.\xa0 And Leslie distanced herself from this friend as well.\nNow Leslie is very mindful about who she surrounds herself with and shares her personal life with.\nProudest moment in partnership \nEarly in Leslie\u2019s business she reached out to a colleague to partner with to build her business.\xa0 And she contacted a woman who was very big and successful in her field even though she figured nothing would come of it.\nAs it turned out, this person was completely on board to help her.\nThis would never have happened if she had not asked. \xa0 And it turned out to be such a good friendship and partnership.\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\nBefore you start another relationship work on healing the past relationship and shift your mindset.\nBest Partnership Book\n\xa0\nFearless Love: Growing Through Divorce, Dating and Divine Purpose to Heal, Thrive and Attract The Love You Desire\n\n<a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1591451876/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591451876&linkC...