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Carol Allen is a happily married Vedic astrologer and relationship coach whose mission is to empower women to enjoy truly \u201cout of this world\u201d love lives.\nCarol\u2019s been featured on E!, Bridezillas, EXTRA, Dr. Drew\u2019s Lifechangers, in Chicken Soup For The Soul, Woman\u2019s World, and Daily Candy, plus she is the author of Love Is In The Stars \u2013 The Wise Woman\u2019s Astrological Guide To Men.\nHer methods are a unique marriage of East and West, combining her training in the astrology of India with cutting-edge, real-world relationship research.\nWhether you\u2019re looking for a soulmate, want to deepen an existing relationship, or heal lifelong love patterns, the answers are literally written in the stars\u2026 and almost anything can be made much better with your own right-actions, once you know the truth and what to do about it.\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\nGod loves me and everything is alright. \nWhen You Tripped Up\nWhen Carol and her husband met they were more about trying to make their lives happen as opposed to co-create their lives.\xa0 It came from this desire to feel control because they were scared.\nFor her this showed up as being controlling.\xa0 She found herself trying to change him.\nCarol had to let go of a lot of superficial ideas of what her relationship was supposed to look like.\xa0 She loved that he was being true to himself and if she succeeded in changing him that would be lost.\nIt took her breaking up with him to figure out what she had.\xa0\nTo have a fulfilling relationship we need to check in with our head, heart and groin.\nSo often we pick someone who works for two of these areas and wonder why we aren\u2019t happy.\nProudest moment in partnership\nWhen Carol and her husband cared for her husband\u2019s mother as she was dying is a time she is really proud of.\nIn their relationship they tend to be happier when they are serving something greater than themselves.\nCarol and her husband were easily able to set aside their own needs and do what they had to for his mother.\xa0 And there was no arguing over who did what.\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\nGive the other person what they want when they want it.\xa0 No more.\xa0 No less.\nIt sounds so simple, but it is hard to do.\xa0 Often we want to say no just to say no, but if it is not compromising your core needs then what\u2019s the big deal.\nIf one person leads the way the other tends to follow so do it even if they aren\u2019t doing it yet.\xa0 Then you get to be a great partner in spite of your partner.\nAnd if giving them what they want when they want it is not right for you or comfortable for you, then that is one of the ways you find out if they are the right person for you.\nBest Partnership Book\n\nThe Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman\u2019s Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible\n\nThe Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country\u2019s Foremost Rel...