Barry Selby Unconscious programming limits the possibilities in relationships

Published: July 5, 2017, noon

Barry Selby is a passionate champion for the divine feminine. \nHe helps strong successful committed women heal their hearts, own their self-love and magnificence, embracing their feminine majesty, so they become a powerful positive force in the world, and attract their true divine masculine partnership in relationship.\nWith over 30 years of study of personal development, interpersonal relationships and embodied understanding of the polarity dance of masculine and feminine, he helps women break the cycle of failed relationships and heart-break, so they can attract their true divine partnership.\nHis #1 best-selling book, 50 Ways To Love Your Lover, helps both singles and couples create rich and rewarding relationships.\nHe brings deep compassion, masculine presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love.\nAfter experiencing her work you will never look at love the same way again.\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\nBe living your purpose in the world before doing anything else.\xa0\nWhen You Tripped Up\nIn Barry\u2019s early dating live, teens and twenties, things would go well until there was a discord or an argument.\xa0 Then he\u2019d quit and he\u2019d leave.\nLike everyone, he learned from his parents how to be in relationships.\xa0 Barry never remembers his parents arguing.\xa0 So his programming was:\xa0 Love means no arguments.\nThis unconscious programming limited the possibility of relationships for him.\xa0 It is our unconscious programming that we need to unpack to change where we go in the future.\nProudest moment in partnership\nBarry has been a spiritual practitioner since 2000.\xa0 And part of that is being on pulpit once every 3 \u2013 4 years to lead part of the service on Sundays.\nHis first time on the pulpit was September 16th, 2001.\xa0 The first Sunday following the 9/11 attacks.\xa0 And twice as many people showed up for service as normally do.\nBy his doing this and providing a sense of normalcy, it provided the attendees with a sense of calm.\xa0\nThis opened his heart even more to being of service.\xa0 And as a result of standing in front of over 2000 people his fear of public speaking basically evaporated.\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received? \nWe are all individually whole and complete.\xa0 We always can serve somebody else.\nBest Partnership Book\n\n50 Ways To Love Your Lover: Powerful Principles for Passionate & Richly Rewarding Relationships filled with Deeply Fulfilling and Juicy Romance!\n\nThe Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire\nInterview Links \u2013\nBarry\u2019s website\nTwitter\n<a href="https://www.facebook.