Alison Armstrong is an author, an educator, and the creator of the widely acclaimed \u201cQueen\u2019s Code\u201d workshop series, that asks the question: \u201cWhat if no one is misbehaving \u2014 including you?\u201d \nShe explores the good reasons behind the behavior of men and women such as fundamental differences in the ways we think, act and communicate. \nShe offers simple, partnership-based, solutions to improve our communication and intimacy by honoring ourselves and others. \nAlison is known for her insight, sense of humor and ability to articulate the human experience and predicament of gender.\nAlison, take a minute to fill in any blanks from the intro & give us a glimpse into your personal life.\nGuiding Principle, Quote or Mantra\n\u201cBe as gentle as you can and as hard as you need.\u201d \u2013 Ray Hunt \u2013 one of fathers of natural horsemanship\nThe \u201cDUH\u201d moment that changed your partnerships forever\nShe has a \u201cDUH\u201d moment every three weeks or so. \xa0 This is one of them.\nAlison shares a moment that was both a \u201cDUH\u201d and an \u201cUh Oh\u201d at the same time.\xa0 This is when she recognized that what she used to call a man\u2019s \u201cbreaking point\u201d is actually his \u201cbreaking through point.\u201d\xa0\nThis is a real eye opener for both women and men.\nWhat are some of the stereotypes say we\u2019re supposed to provide in partnership and what am I hoping you\u2019ll let me do for you?\n\nProudest moment in partnership \nWhen she realized that her husband is not built to drive away from her.\xa0 And then she did the most loving thing anyone had ever done for him. \nAnd it was hard because as Alison says \u2013 \u201cThe partnership thing to do is rarely the easiest or most comfortable thing to do.\u201d\nWhat is the best partnership / relationship advice you have ever received?\nWe think missing another person is an expression of love.\xa0 What if missing another person is an expression of not being in the present?\nBeing apart from someone you love does not mean you have to be less of who you are when you\u2019re apart.\xa0 \xa0\nWe have to take care of who we are individually, so when we are alone, we\u2019re empowered.\nBest Partnership Book\nAlison admitted that she does not go to books for this information.\xa0 She has somewhere else she goes that serves her best.\xa0\nBut if you are a book person, I personally recommend all of Alison\u2019s books\n\n\xa0\nPayoffs of Partnership \u2013 \nWe don\u2019t know what we are appreciated for because we don\u2019t talk about it.\xa0 Being appreciated requires a partner.\nInterview Links \u2013\n\nwww.understandmen.com\nAlison\u2019s Facebook Page\n