#203 Selfish Sex, Cuckolding, & Differences In Desire - with Dr. Nan Wise

Published: Dec. 23, 2020, 12:44 a.m.

Dr. Nan and her wonderful husband John joins us once again to answer: What can I do about selfish sex? What if I want more sex than my partner? How do I ask for what I want? And what is cuckolding and "hot wifing" all about?\nWe also answer a sex question about anal sex for beginners.\xa0\nWant to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 18.\xa0\nAbout our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark.\xa0She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women\u2019s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com\n\xa0\nOther links:\nGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at\xa0uberlube.com\nGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless\nGet 20% off the Naughty or Nice Kit and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at LikeAKitten.com\xa0\nGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless\nWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com\nGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com\nBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast