What are the common reasons people stray from their partners?\xa0How common is it and how do folks rebuild relationships after infidelity? And what is the "New Monogamy" all about?\xa0\nWe also answer a sex question: How can I reconnect to myself and learn to relax with my partner after sexual trauma?\nDr.\xa0Tammy Nelson PhD\xa0is an internationally acclaimed psychotherapist and TEDx speaker and\xa0the author of several books including, \u201cGetting the Sex You Want,\xa0\xa0\u201cThe New Monogamy; and her latest book "When You're the One Who Cheats."\xa0\nShe has been a featured expert in\xa0the\xa0NY Times, Washington Post, Wall Street Journal, CNN, Rolling Stone Magazine, TIME,\xa0and a source in\xa0Time\xa0Magazine. She writes for\xa0Huffington Post, ThriveGlobal, Medium\xa0and has a new podcast, The Trouble with Sex.\xa0\nDr. Tammy is a Board Certified Sexologist, a Certified Sex Therapist and a Certified\xa0Relationship Therapist.\xa0She can be found at\xa0drtammynelson.com\n\xa0\nSome other links we talk about:\xa0\nGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at\xa0uberlube.com\nGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless\nGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com\nLearn more about sexological bodywork with River Drosera at riverdrosera.life\nAccess your free 30-day trial to Open Fit by texting sspodcast to 303030