#105 Threesomes - with Reid Mihalko

Published: May 5, 2019, 7:26 p.m.

In this episode we chat with Sex Educator Reid Mihalko all about threesomes! How do we negotiate threesomes with potential (and current) partners? Where do we find a third? What about safety and consent? And how do we make threesomes playful and fun?\nWe also answer a sex question: How to navigate a date night visit to a sex shop without feeling awkward.\nAbout Reid: Sex and relationship geek Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information.\nIn early 2018, some very brave people came forward sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid\u2019s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid\u2019s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.\nReid teaches internationally, running workshops and speaking on communication skills, alternative relationship styles, and shame-free sexuality. Whether online, on stage, or at a college or university, Reid shares skills and concepts designed to help everyone be the change they want to see in the bedroom.\nReid\u2019s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 50,000 people from all over the globe. He has appeared in media such as Netflix\u2019 Chelsea Does... with Chelsea Handler, Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages\nReid\xa0is also founder of\xa0Sex Geek Summer Camp,\xa0Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which\xa0help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts.\nFollow\xa0Reid\xa0on\xa0Twitter\xa0and\xa0Facebook\xa0and\xa0YouTube\xa0and\xa0Instagram.\n\xa0\nSome other resources we mention:\nStart meditating now with this easy-to-use app + get 25% off of a Calm premium subscription by visiting calm.com/shamelesssex\nGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at\xa0uberlube.com\nGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless\nGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com\nDrink a glass of delicious natural wine while listening to us by visiting marginswine.com