Imagine: You've got that special someone who makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. The trust is there, the connection is solid. But sometimes the fire just fizzles out when it comes to sex. I get it. When the routine starts feeling a bit too...routine, it's time to switch things up and rediscover what really gets your engine revving (and sometimes, it\u2019s not your partner!).\nOn today\u2019s throwback we're diving deep into the world of sexual attraction - what it is, how it's different from romantic love, and most importantly, how to use that knowledge to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Because at the end of the day, switching it up never hurt anybody.\xa0\nIn this episode you\u2019ll learn:\n\nWhy sexual attraction can feel so distinctly different than long-term love\n\nWhat to do when you and your partner are both submissive\n\nWhen you should hang onto your friend with benefits \u2013 and when to let them go\n\n\nShow Notes:\n\nJoin me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch!\n\nSex and Psychology\n\n\nSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)\n\nThis episode is brought to you by: Promescent (Visit the link for 15% off)\n\nThe only sex book you\u2019ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure\n\n\nWant more? Sex With Emily: Home\n\n\nLet\u2019s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok\xa0\n\nLet\u2019s text: Sign Up Here\n\n\nWant me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.\n\n\nSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.