There\u2019s often someone who initiates the sex, and someone who says \u201cyes\u201d or \u201cno.\u201d These roles can work long-term, but what happens when sexual initiations become a problem? When you\u2019re always hearing no, or when you always say no?\xa0On today\u2019s show, I'm talking about sexual initiations and how to make this moment a better experience for all. When you\u2019re the initiator, but want your partner to do it more often, how do you talk to them about it? We\u2019ll also get into spontaneous vs. responsive desire, and as someone with responsive desire, I\u2019ll share my routine for getting turned on for sex. Finally, when you and your partner are so busy that no one\u2019s initiating, what\u2019s the conversation you need to have? I advise a caller in this exact situation.\nShow Notes:\n\nThe Future of Sex Tech\n\nThe Sexiest Morning Routine Ever\n\nPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure\n\n\n\nSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)\n\nSmartMouth\n\n\nVUSH I Come First - Self-Connection Kit (Kit is 50% off, Save an additional 10% with the code EMILYICF)\n\nI Gave My Friend a Magic Wand Mini. Here\u2019s Why.\n\n\nMagBreakthrough.com/SexWithEmily (code SexWithEmily10 for 10% off)\n\n Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.