So your partner is great\u2026 but you want them to bring the heat, and don\u2019t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today\u2019s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don\u2019t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too heavily on porn or toys, what to do if your partner\u2019s penis is too big for anal, what to do if YOU like giving oral but your partner isn\u2019t as down to receive, and how to enjoy casual dating.\n\nIn this episode you\u2019ll learn:\n\nHow past negative experiences can impact your current reactions to physical affection, and discover strategies to rebuild a positive relationship with touch.\n\nUnderstand the importance of transparent dialogue with your partner about your needs and boundaries, and how to approach these conversations constructively.\n\nExplore the challenges of casual dating and the significance of self-awareness in identifying what type of relationship dynamic suits you best.\n\n\nShow Notes:\n\n\nJoin the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.\n\n\nYes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.\xa0\n\n\nSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)\n\nThe only sex book you\u2019ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure\n\n\nWant more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website\xa0\n\nLet\u2019s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube\n\n\nLet\u2019s text: Sign up here\n\n\nWant me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.\n\n\nSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com