It\u2019s Hotline Calls time! And we\u2019ve got one common theme: trust - the foundation of hot sex. Because when you trust yourself and the person you\u2019re with, you can fully let go in bed and relax into your deepest pleasure. When oral sex gets too rough, how can you ask your partner to be more gentle and respectful? I\u2019ve got some thoughts. When your partner doesn\u2019t love booty play \u2013 but you definitely do \u2013 can you still ask for a rim job? Let\u2019s say your partner goes to strip clubs, and it makes you super uncomfortable. How do you set boundaries together? Finally, when you\u2019re the non-primary partner in a polyamorous relationship, what resources can you turn to for advice & guidance?\nHave a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.\nSee the full show notes at sexwithemily.com\nShow Notes:\n\n5 Libido-Boosting Aphrodisiacs to Try In and Out of the Bedroom\n\nIs My Penis Normal?\n\n\nSHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)\n\nSystem JO Flavored Lube\n\nSystem JO Tri-Me Triple Pack: Limited Edition\n\nSystem JO Tri-Me Triple Pack: Neapolitan\n\n\nPolysecure, Jessica Fern: Bookshop | Amazon\n\n\n\nOpening Up, Tristan Taormino: Amazon | Barnes & Noble\n\n\n\nOpen Deeply, Kate Loree: Bookshop | Amazon\n\n\n\u201cThe Challenges of Being a Secondary,\u201d Conscious Polyamory\n\n\u201cBeing Secondary While Putting Yourself First,\u201d Multiamory\n\nPolyamory in BLACK!\n\n Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.