b'Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you\\u2019re one of those people who\\u2019s like: \\u201cI don\\u2019t know how to fantasize, Emily?\\u201d Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits.\\xa0\\xa0\\nPlus, we take your questions! How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you\\u2019re not so into it), what to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross, how to talk about your kink to a new partner and much more.\\xa0\\nFor More Elle Chase:\\xa0\\nWebsite | Twitter | Instagram | Facebook\\nElle\\u2019s Naughty Coloring Book | Curvy Girl Sex by Elle Chase | Elle\\u2019s Fantasy Course\\xa0\\nShow Notes:\\n\\nTell Me What You Want by Justin Lehmiller\\n\\nCome As You Are by Emily Nagoski\\n\\n\\nThe Yes No Maybe List\\xa0 \\n\\nWe Vibe Toys\\n\\n\\n Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.'