All sexual fantasies have one thing in common: they trigger an arousal response inside our bodies, laced with erotic flavor. But how do you actualize your fantasy with a partner who\u2019s wary of it? Even turned off by it? On today\u2019s show, I\u2019m taking your calls on this exact predicament. First up: when your partner wants you to drastically change your appearance for their pleasure, should you do it? Or when your partner wants to watch you with a third, how do you find that person? Next, if you\u2019re not naturally dominant in bed, but your partner\u2019s begging for it, how do you step into your power? I also get into urine fetishes (yep, like golden showers), how to introduce them to an otherwise vanilla sex life, and how to explore same-sex adventures in a hetero marriage.\xa0\xa0\xa0\xa0\nShow Notes:\n\nSex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates\n\nPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure\n\n\n\nSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)\n\nSmartMouth\n\nFetLife\n\nKasidie\n\nFeeld\n\n\nWomaness.com/Emily (code EMILY for 20% off sitewide)\n\n Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.