If you\u2019ve never talked about your sex life with your partner before, there\u2019s a good chance they\u2019ll push back. Why? Because most of us go into fight or flight mode when talking about sex: it\u2019s not normalized in our culture, we get defensive, we feel like we\u2019re being criticized. But never fear \u2013 you can create a culture of sex communication in your relationship, one talk at a time. Be the change, is what I\u2019m saying.\nOn today\u2019s hotline show, I take your calls about having a sex talk. Like: telling your wife you want her to massage your prostate. Or telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier. How to relax into oral and give your partner tips to make you scream, and how to tell your partner: \u201cyou know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into penetration.\u201d If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins! So take a listen to this episode, and see if your next sex talk isn\u2019t a little bit easier.\xa0\nShow Notes:\n\nEmbodied is The New Sexy: 5 Benefits of Living a Radically Embodied Life\xa0\n\nA+ Oral Sex for Vulvas\n\nEverybody Loves Oral\n\nAsk Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?\xa0\n\nMind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method\n\n\n\n Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.