How do you kickstart sexual arousal? Would you believe me if I told you that sometimes, the best ways to get turned on have nothing to do with sex itself? When you take the focus off the bedroom, and turn your focus toward adventure \u2013 the kind that gets your heart-pumping, your adrenaline going, and your anticipation building \u2013 a cool thing happens in your brain. You\u2019re excited, and that excitement spills over from the activity into\u2026sex. Pretty nifty, right?\nSo on today\u2019s show, we\u2019re going to trust, touch, and titillate our way towards arousal, with bonding hacks you can use on your next date whether it is with a long term partner or someone new. Plus, I take your questions! Ways to feel confident and sexual again after a breakup, how to have kinky sex with a partner who says they aren\u2019t interested, how to decide if you should wait to develop a relationship with a super busy person or cut em\u2019 loose, how to take sexy pictures with each other, and how to communicate your needs efficiently outside the bedroom so that you can reignate the spark when you\u2019re back inside.\nShow Notes:\n\nSerena Kerrigan\u2019s Let\u2019s Fucking Date\n\n\nEsther Perel\u2019s Where Should We Begin?\xa0\xa0\n\nCome As You Are by Emily Nagoski\n\nThe Yes No Maybe List\n\n\n Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.